Should parents charge their working kid rent?

21 replies 160 views
m00n51Hero Member
Posts: 85 · Reputation: 2161
#1May 4, 2018, 01:04 AM
I read this article where a mom charges her daughter $75 a month now that she has a job. Seems kinda harsh, right?
4 Reply Quote Share
0xDiamondMember
Posts: 55 · Reputation: 106
#2May 4, 2018, 06:15 AM
I think it’s fair. Living with parents is cheaper than being on your own. Plus, it helps the kid save money. Sure, it has its downsides too, like feeling stuck.
2 Reply Quote Share
chris1337Full Member
Posts: 63 · Reputation: 252
#3May 4, 2018, 08:44 AM
From what I gather, it’s not really about rent. The mom just wants her daughter to contribute a bit. If I earned what she does, I wouldn’t mind at all.
4 Reply Quote Share
0x4lphaFull Member
Posts: 519 · Reputation: 509
#4May 5, 2018, 06:58 AM
Exactly! If you’re working, you should pitch in somehow. Even just for the basics like utilities. It's all part of being part of a family.
3 Reply Quote Share
yield_2017Senior Member
Posts: 44 · Reputation: 1725
#5May 5, 2018, 10:58 AM
Poor mom though. If her daughter can't pay $75 on an $800 salary, maybe she needs to get out and see how tough life is. Rent is way more than that.
4 Reply Quote Share
wagmiNewbie
Posts: 301 · Reputation: 14
#6May 5, 2018, 12:44 PM
Right? That girl should count her blessings. In some cultures, kids send home much more to help out. $75 is a steal.
2 Reply Quote Share
laseryesSenior Member
Posts: 190 · Reputation: 1504
#7May 5, 2018, 02:48 PM
Couldn’t agree more. It’s not just about one family. If you’re earning, helping out is just what responsible kids do. But it varies by family.
1 Reply Quote Share
Posts: 156 · Reputation: 90
#8May 5, 2018, 03:25 PM
Parents lose benefits when kids turn 18. They have to teach them what adulting looks like. Paying a small amount helps prepare them for real bills.
3 Reply Quote Share
Posts: 154 · Reputation: 163
#9May 5, 2018, 08:46 PM
Totally! If they expect everything to be handed to them, they’re just spoiled. But forcing them to pay doesn’t teach them anything about money management.
2 Reply Quote Share
lonealphaNewbie
Posts: 287 · Reputation: 5
#10May 5, 2018, 11:10 PM
Sure, there’s a better way to approach it. Kids should feel ready to help without being pushed. If they don’t want to contribute, it might backfire.
1 Reply Quote Share
m00n51Hero Member
Posts: 85 · Reputation: 2161
#11May 6, 2018, 07:14 AM
Yeah, but paying rent vs. just helping out are different. If the house is owned, they should contribute in other ways like groceries or utilities.
6 Reply Quote Share
Posts: 147 · Reputation: 22
#12May 6, 2018, 11:50 AM
That girl never got charged when she was unemployed. Now that she’s earning, it's not unreasonable for her mom to ask for help. It’s about sharing responsibilities.
3 Reply Quote Share
stack42Newbie
Posts: 74 · Reputation: 5
#13May 6, 2018, 05:55 PM
Nah, as a parent, it feels wrong to ask for money from your kid. You raised them; it should be about love, not bills.
1 Reply Quote Share
Posts: 45 · Reputation: 21
#14May 6, 2018, 07:46 PM
But kids need to learn the value of money, right? $75 isn’t much, but it’s a lesson on budgeting. Preparing them for life.
4 Reply Quote Share
Posts: 147 · Reputation: 161
#15May 7, 2018, 12:14 AM
True, but that amount is a drop in the bucket. It’s more about life lessons rather than the money itself.
1 Reply Quote Share
dan2011Newbie
Posts: 53 · Reputation: 27
#16May 7, 2018, 05:21 AM
+1, it's about teaching them what to expect in adult life. Better to start small than to slap them with real bills later.
3 Reply Quote Share
cipher23Member
Posts: 29 · Reputation: 66
#17May 7, 2018, 07:53 AM
Some families are better off and don’t need to charge their kids. It all depends on the situation.
0 Reply Quote Share
Posts: 48 · Reputation: 95
#18May 7, 2018, 09:44 AM
Right, it’s not always about money but about upbringing, too. Parents have different strategies based on their own background.
1 Reply Quote Share
Posts: 10 · Reputation: 194
#19May 7, 2018, 10:41 AM
So, if parents are financially okay, maybe they shouldn’t ask for rent? It might just be their way of preparing the kid for independence.
2 Reply Quote Share
tony2021Full Member
Posts: 69 · Reputation: 342
#20May 7, 2018, 11:14 AM
For sure, having a job should come with some responsibilities. It’s just part of growing up.
2 Reply Quote Share

Related topics