Should parents charge their working kid rent?

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m00n51Hero Member
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#1May 4, 2018, 01:04 AM
I read this article where a mom charges her daughter $75 a month now that she has a job. Seems kinda harsh, right?
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0xDiamondMember
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#2May 4, 2018, 06:15 AM
I think it’s fair. Living with parents is cheaper than being on your own. Plus, it helps the kid save money. Sure, it has its downsides too, like feeling stuck.
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chris1337Full Member
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#3May 4, 2018, 08:44 AM
From what I gather, it’s not really about rent. The mom just wants her daughter to contribute a bit. If I earned what she does, I wouldn’t mind at all.
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0x4lphaFull Member
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#4May 5, 2018, 06:58 AM
Exactly! If you’re working, you should pitch in somehow. Even just for the basics like utilities. It's all part of being part of a family.
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yield_2017Senior Member
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#5May 5, 2018, 10:58 AM
Poor mom though. If her daughter can't pay $75 on an $800 salary, maybe she needs to get out and see how tough life is. Rent is way more than that.
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wagmiNewbie
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#6May 5, 2018, 12:44 PM
Right? That girl should count her blessings. In some cultures, kids send home much more to help out. $75 is a steal.
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laseryesSenior Member
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#7May 5, 2018, 02:48 PM
Couldn’t agree more. It’s not just about one family. If you’re earning, helping out is just what responsible kids do. But it varies by family.
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#8May 5, 2018, 03:25 PM
Parents lose benefits when kids turn 18. They have to teach them what adulting looks like. Paying a small amount helps prepare them for real bills.
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#9May 5, 2018, 08:46 PM
Totally! If they expect everything to be handed to them, they’re just spoiled. But forcing them to pay doesn’t teach them anything about money management.
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lonealphaNewbie
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#10May 5, 2018, 11:10 PM
Sure, there’s a better way to approach it. Kids should feel ready to help without being pushed. If they don’t want to contribute, it might backfire.
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m00n51Hero Member
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#11May 6, 2018, 07:14 AM
Yeah, but paying rent vs. just helping out are different. If the house is owned, they should contribute in other ways like groceries or utilities.
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#12May 6, 2018, 11:50 AM
That girl never got charged when she was unemployed. Now that she’s earning, it's not unreasonable for her mom to ask for help. It’s about sharing responsibilities.
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stack42Newbie
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#13May 6, 2018, 05:55 PM
Nah, as a parent, it feels wrong to ask for money from your kid. You raised them; it should be about love, not bills.
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#14May 6, 2018, 07:46 PM
But kids need to learn the value of money, right? $75 isn’t much, but it’s a lesson on budgeting. Preparing them for life.
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#15May 7, 2018, 12:14 AM
True, but that amount is a drop in the bucket. It’s more about life lessons rather than the money itself.
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dan2011Newbie
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#16May 7, 2018, 05:21 AM
+1, it's about teaching them what to expect in adult life. Better to start small than to slap them with real bills later.
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cipher23Member
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#17May 7, 2018, 07:53 AM
Some families are better off and don’t need to charge their kids. It all depends on the situation.
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#18May 7, 2018, 09:44 AM
Right, it’s not always about money but about upbringing, too. Parents have different strategies based on their own background.
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#19May 7, 2018, 10:41 AM
So, if parents are financially okay, maybe they shouldn’t ask for rent? It might just be their way of preparing the kid for independence.
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tony2021Full Member
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#20May 7, 2018, 11:14 AM
For sure, having a job should come with some responsibilities. It’s just part of growing up.
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