I read this article where a mom charges her daughter $75 a month now that she has a job. Seems kinda harsh, right?
Should parents charge their working kid rent?
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I think it’s fair. Living with parents is cheaper than being on your own. Plus, it helps the kid save money. Sure, it has its downsides too, like feeling stuck.
From what I gather, it’s not really about rent. The mom just wants her daughter to contribute a bit. If I earned what she does, I wouldn’t mind at all.
Exactly! If you’re working, you should pitch in somehow. Even just for the basics like utilities. It's all part of being part of a family.
yield_2017Senior Member
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#5May 5, 2018, 10:58 AM
Poor mom though. If her daughter can't pay $75 on an $800 salary, maybe she needs to get out and see how tough life is. Rent is way more than that.
Right? That girl should count her blessings. In some cultures, kids send home much more to help out. $75 is a steal.
Couldn’t agree more. It’s not just about one family. If you’re earning, helping out is just what responsible kids do. But it varies by family.
nova_atlasMember
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#8May 5, 2018, 03:25 PM
Parents lose benefits when kids turn 18. They have to teach them what adulting looks like. Paying a small amount helps prepare them for real bills.
king_matrixMember
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#9May 5, 2018, 08:46 PM
Totally! If they expect everything to be handed to them, they’re just spoiled. But forcing them to pay doesn’t teach them anything about money management.
Sure, there’s a better way to approach it. Kids should feel ready to help without being pushed. If they don’t want to contribute, it might backfire.
Yeah, but paying rent vs. just helping out are different. If the house is owned, they should contribute in other ways like groceries or utilities.
pix3l_h4shNewbie
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#12May 6, 2018, 11:50 AM
That girl never got charged when she was unemployed. Now that she’s earning, it's not unreasonable for her mom to ask for help. It’s about sharing responsibilities.
Nah, as a parent, it feels wrong to ask for money from your kid. You raised them; it should be about love, not bills.
bridge2016Newbie
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#14May 6, 2018, 07:46 PM
But kids need to learn the value of money, right? $75 isn’t much, but it’s a lesson on budgeting. Preparing them for life.
its_walletMember
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#15May 7, 2018, 12:14 AM
True, but that amount is a drop in the bucket. It’s more about life lessons rather than the money itself.
+1, it's about teaching them what to expect in adult life. Better to start small than to slap them with real bills later.
Some families are better off and don’t need to charge their kids. It all depends on the situation.
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#18May 7, 2018, 09:44 AM
Right, it’s not always about money but about upbringing, too. Parents have different strategies based on their own background.
swiftpixelMember
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#19May 7, 2018, 10:41 AM
So, if parents are financially okay, maybe they shouldn’t ask for rent? It might just be their way of preparing the kid for independence.
For sure, having a job should come with some responsibilities. It’s just part of growing up.